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  • Hufflepuff
    Participant
    March 29, 2017 at 6:28 pm

    Have any of you had friendship issues?If so what did you do? I have discovered that my best friend is actually really  selfish.At the moment I am playing with different friends but I can’t decide whether to break our friendship or not.PLEASE HELP ME!!I NEED ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO!


    pinkalotk
    Participant
    March 31, 2017 at 12:50 pm

    Hi Kitten,
    A few years ago my “best friend” turned out to be good at making me think she was right, making me feel guilty etc

    So I know how that can feel. It depends on what you mean by “selfish” really. Has this gone on for a while? Is it possible to mend your friendship and move on? If the friendship isn’t making you happy, it might be time to move on.

    It’s up to you what you do, make sure you get a good, supportive friendship base apart from that one “best” friend, and make sure that if you do decide to end your friendship, you won’t be alone. Trust me, being alone is not a good idea.
    Maybe try and make friends with people around you who aren’t already in your “friendship circle”, so come out of your comfort zone to talk to people.

    I really hope it gets better for you, I went through a nasty friendship end a few years ago, and sometimes I still feel down about it. I’m here if you want to talk 🙂

    Pink.


    Hufflepuff
    Participant
    April 4, 2017 at 5:35 pm

    Thanks for that good advice.I will try to make new friends.


    pinkalotk
    Participant
    April 6, 2017 at 9:52 am

    @kitten. That’s ok, I’m glad I helped. Always here to talk 🙂


    purple_unicorn
    Participant
    April 6, 2017 at 9:54 am

    I had a friend about a week ago she was all like ‘your my bestie’ and ‘I love you bestie’ even though she was always kicking me! One day she kicked me so hard I got a massive bruise so I kicked her back and she went off being mardy! Then she wouldn’t sit near me even after we made up! That was the end of our friendship!!! She has still blocked me!!!


    Gertrude
    Participant
    October 12, 2019 at 10:40 am

    I had a “best friend” a few weeks ago, she was a drama queen. Anyway, I saw this person on their own during play time so I went to go and play with them, but my “best friend” didn’t like that and started to talk behind my back, bringing my friends into it and then one day, our friendship ended…
    I know it’s really hard, but sometimes you need to just ignore it. What I’ve found helpful is writing down what makes you angry on a piece of paper and then destroying that paper. Surprisingly it helps!


    Gumdrops
    Participant
    November 19, 2019 at 8:36 pm

    Hi do what is best for u she might be going through a phase or if not do whats best

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